Many in theatre are extroverts, and this quarantine has them bursting at the seams to socialize while others are cozy in their solitude. But even those of us who are a bit more introverted like it when others check on us. Although we all react differently, we all can get a bit stir crazy, and sometimes we all need that nudge to check on others as well. Maybe you want to check on others, but just aren’t sure where to start. We’ve been in quarantine for well over a month now, and long to see friends and loved ones. Just because we can’t physically be with one another doesn’t mean that we can’t reach out and check on each other. Here are some ideas for staying connected while maintaining social distancing.
1. Call or Text
Perhaps the easiest way to stay connected is to call or text those that you care about to check on them. This may come easier for some of us than others. Perhaps you fear that you have waited too long or you are not sure what to talk about? Don’t let feelings of guilt or not knowing what to say keep you from calling. Start simple by asking how their job or school lessons have been going. Then ask about their family or pets. From there, you could talk about interests or hobbies and what they’ve been up to as well as what you’ve been up to in order to pass the time. Ask how they’re holding up emotionally. Honestly, they will probably just be glad to hear your voice on the other end of the line.
2. Send a Card or Letter
Another great method of letting others know that you care is by sending a card or letter. You don’t have to jot down a long, extravagant message to let someone know that you were thinking about them. A simple “Hello, I hope you are doing well!” is enough to let someone know you care. You could use any regular notebook paper or stationary that you have on hand. I’ve also found a set of 10 brightly colored pop art note cards with drama faces that would work well if you’re looking for something theatrical.
Another option are these nifty coloring note cards in two different theatrical styles: Theatre Nerds and Theatre Scenes. Each comes in a set of four. Once they get your card, they’ll also have a cool design that they can then color and display.
3. Connect Virtually
Whether its through Facetime, Zoom, Google Hangouts, or some other form of video conferencing, find a way to stay connected face to face. Talk, have coffee, maybe even do some of the normal activities you would do together such as watch a movie, video games, or cooking. Having fun doing those same things in separate locations while staying connected through an app will help you achieve a sense of togetherness.
4. Send a Care Package
Perhaps you’d like to send a care package to a certain special theatrical person. Below are several ideas of what you could include in your care package:
a. Bumper Sticker/Car Magnets
This cheerful bumper sticker will definitely brighten the day of a theatrical friend or family member who loves musical theatre! It measures 8″x3″ and because it’s a magnet, it can be used, moved, and reused over and over!
b. Jewelry
The Dear Evan Hanson inspired “You’re You and That’s Enough” adjustable bracelet was created for those who love this wonderful show, and it has touched the lives of so many who struggle with anxiety and depression. Give it as a gift to serve as a visual reminder of hope, and pray it will encourage others to keep fighting.
Playbill Charm Bracelet by New Horizons Production has 14 charms on it representing 7 productions including Les Mis, Wicked, Lion King, Hamilton, Phantom of the Opera, Dear Evan Hanson, and Heathers.
c. Key Chains
Key chains also make great gifts, with a variety of options to choose from.
d. Notebooks/Journals
e. Pins/Buttons
f. Stickers
Look at all these cute stickers!!! A few sets of ready to be colored by you stickers include Theatre Nerds (set of 4) , Coloring Broadway Collection 1 (set of 5), and Coloring Broadway Collection 2 (set of 5).
g. Face Masks
As face masks have become a part of our lives during the COVID 19 epidemic, it’s nice to know that we have access to masks that speak to our personalities. Here are a few theatrical options.
In Conclusion
Staying connected in a worldwide pandemic may seem overwhelming at first. Start small; you don’t have to connect with everyone at once or all of the time. Maintaining communication with friends and loved ones is necessary for our well being not only in times of crisis but also on a regular basis. Sometimes its takes a crisis for us to realize what we’ve taken for granted.
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Love the idea of care package. Sounds like excellent way to show someone you care. Love all other ideas too. Lovely read.
I randomly call my friends even colleagues, and check on them. I also let them know that they can call me if they want someone (to listen on their venting!), lol I’m good at it.
We have been on community quarantine for almost two months now. I miss my grandson so much. We do stay connected virtually and through phone calls. It really helps ease the anxiety.
These are some really cool ideas and also very simple to follow, and one small gesture like this goes a long way in staying connected and maintaining relations
These are excellent ways to stay in touch.I personally love sending cards and letters!